It seems like the last few weeks drama has been slapping me in the face like a wet towel. And I dont function well with this. But in the past few weeks I have also noticed I need to check myself. A VERY wise women AKA my Mom. Told me once " That offense can not be given. It can only be Taken" Words that stick out in my mind more then anything. But always seem to scurry when I need them most. I have always been a people pleaser. I care deeply what people think about me. And with that I seem to dance around things. Never give straight answers, and keep my mouth shut. In fear I might offend someone, of shock them with what I really think. And with this I see myself being this kitten like women. Instead of the Lioness I want to be. I am quick to take offense at others and hold on to grudges like they are going out of style.
I have been playing this balancing act overtime lately. Just trying to remain copacetic with everyone. And have lost focus on my "Star Player" ME.
So Im looking me in the face and saying "You can not please everyone." Its ok to have opinions.